Friday, December 19, 2008

RIP Caylee Anthony





I do not even know where to begin. Yes I do. If this was a black child with a black mother, I am wondering if this would be blowing up the media? Nope...One day we will have fair and balanced media. Just like our mixed president elect. Anything is possible..


I was looking at Caylee and her sweet lil face and it made me think of my baby girl, and what could posses a person to do this to a child? I am not making assumptions and I would like to think that her mother had nothing to do with it, but it is not looking good for Casey.

The image that keeps flashing in my mind is Casey dancing so free and happy at that bar. WTF? Either she had no idea what was going on with Caylee, or she is totally out of it. Now I try to stick up for the MI and I don't know if Casey has been diagnosed, but if she killed her child and had no remorse she needs more than help.

Look at them in the picture. They both seem happy. I know that parents some times "snap," because my mom snapped on more than one occasions. I can see how an accident can happen, where you kill your child. I was thinking today what would my mother have done if she had accidentally killed me with her torturous beatings?! I don't hit my baby girl. (YET) She has a smart mouth. I want to pop her one sometimes. Everyone except my mother tells me that I should. Funny huh? That is a different subject and a totally different post. What I'm trying to figure out is if a jury/judge and I, most of all will buy Casey's mental illness plea?

I was saying to one of my friends the other day about BP and such, while referring to my father being an alcoholic. I said that if I created a life of turmoil for my baby girl and blamed it on BP, how fucked up would that be? I got into it w/ my father over the phone about 2 mts ago *again a diff post* but I haven't talked to him since. He snaps for no good reason, and I don't deal with drama in my life AT ALL. I don't play. If you don't mean F any good, then I get to stepping out of your life. So, he went to Vietnam and so he drinks too much, but he is the one who dictates his actions through all of that. Either you step up to the plate and deal w/ it, or everything else is bull shit. Just like when he tells me he's proud, but then turns around to cut me down. Whatever. So if I did the same thing to my baby girl, and blamed it on this illness then she would have a reason to feel the same way.

So my point is..if Casey was feeling stressed then she should have sought out help. She had her mother there for goodness sake. She had a baby sitter whenever. I feel bad for this child, and this is my public service announcement to all parents....

If your shit is becoming to hard to handle don't take it out on the child. Who knows what type of person that you will create. You can only hope they turn your damage into art..

3 comments:

Sexxy Luv said...

right. not all of us can turn damage into art.

as a parent it's hurt to accept any excuse that is being made mental illness or any other. i just can't see taking the life of one of my angels. they truly are the reason i breathe.

Sexxy Luv said...

hurt=hard

Foia said...

I know right..but she probably is gonna play that card..